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Imagine this: It's mid-November, your inbox is overflowing, your year-end campaign is ramping up, and somewhere in the back of your mind, you know you should be thinking more intentionally about thanking your donors. But between grant deadlines, board meetings, and program demands, "meaningful donor stewardship" feels like another item on an already long to-do list.

I get it. And here's what I've learned from working with nonprofit leaders who've cracked this code: the organizations that make their donors feel genuinely appreciated aren't necessarily the ones with the biggest development teams or the fanciest CRM systems. They're the ones who've figured out how to scale gratitude and authenticity and they're doing it in ways that might surprise you.

Have you ever experienced the excitement of securing that first donation from a supporter, only to feel the connection slowly fade away? It’s a common frustration among nonprofit leaders—like trying to hold water in your hands; no matter how tightly you grasp, it slips through your fingers.

This isn’t just a feeling. It’s backed by data. The 2025 Virtuous Benchmark Report reveals that the average gross donor retention rate across nonprofits sits at just 50.4%. That means nearly half of donors disappear each year. First-time donors? The numbers are even bleaker—up to 70% never give again.

As fundraisers or nonprofit leaders, we express gratitude in a million ways. We appreciate the volunteers and donors who show up to events or support our cause. We are grateful to the corporations and the people within the companies who sponsor our events and the supporters who remember our organizations in their wills. We honor the small gifts that are so heartfelt and the big gifts that represent transformation.

My partner Dana has an unusual obsession with Mount Washington. The 6,148-foot New Hampshire peak holds the world record of the highest wind speed ever recorded on land: 231 mph back in 1934.

This month, we're thinking about thanks... especially for those who support nonprofits in their important work. It's time to think outside the box about stewardship. 

My friend Larry Webb, business owner and philanthropist, has been a big supporter of the Leelanau Conservancy in Northern Michigan. Larry is one of those donors who does not find naming opportunities important to his giving. In fact, when he was asked about a naming opportunity for this project, jokingly answered, “Just put my name on a tree.”